Kids, Keep Your Parents Home: Why Mom and Dad Shouldn’t Tag Along to the Home Inspection

It’s happening. You’ve found the one. Not a person (that’s another blog post), but the house: charming, imperfect, full of potential—just like every great relationship. You’ve seen a dozen others, swiped left on most, toured a few more “meh” options, and now, finally, you’re ready to commit. You’re feeling confident, excited, and yes—maybe a little nervous. And then someone says the fateful words:

“Let’s bring Mom and Dad to the inspection.”

Insert dramatic music here.

Enter: Inspector Dad™️

Now, don’t get us wrong—we love parents. They raised you, helped you learn to tie your shoes, and probably paid for your first cellphone. But unless your dad is a licensed home inspector (and even then, maybe not), his presence at your home inspection can be more disruptive than helpful.

Most parents bought their homes decades ago, in a very different market. They probably paid less than you’re putting down as a deposit. And their reference point for home inspections? Let’s just say things have changed a bit since the ’90s.

Dad might tap suspiciously on the drywall, mutter darkly about “old plumbing,” or proclaim the furnace is “definitely on its last legs” (it’s two years old). Meanwhile, Mom’s texting listings for homes $200K over your budget because they “seem safer.”

The Dream-Crushing Effect

You, the adult child, are ready. You’ve done your research, worked with a real estate professional, and are making a huge financial (and emotional) leap. But one poorly timed eyebrow raise from a parent during the inspection can shatter the whole vibe.

Next thing you know, you’re second-guessing everything. Is the slope of the driveway a red flag? Is that really a hairline crack? Should you start over completely?

You went in feeling excited. You leave wondering if you should just live in your car.

Trust Yourself—And Your Inspector

A professional home inspector is trained to spot issues, explain risks, and guide you through what’s serious versus what’s just “old house charm.” They don’t carry the emotional baggage of watching you grow up, and they don’t secretly wish you’d move in around the corner.

You’re not being reckless. You’re being a grown-up.

Let Your Parents Cheer from the Sidelines

Want to show them the house later? Absolutely. Want to loop them in after the inspection? Sure. But during the inspection itself, it’s your time to get the info you need, ask questions freely, and make the decision that you will live with—literally.

So here’s our advice, from professionals who’ve seen deals implode in slow motion:

Kids, keep your parents home.

They’ll thank you later (especially when they get invited over for your housewarming party and don’t have to say, “You know, I still think the basement smells funny…”).

So the next time you’re headed to a home inspection, remember—confidence, clarity, and calm decision-making are key. Leave “Inspector Dad” at home (preferably with snacks and a distraction), and trust yourself, your inspector, and your real estate pros to guide the way.

From Ottawa to Cornwall, smart real estate starts with HOMEGEEKs.ca. Whether you’re buying your first home or your fifth, we’re here to help you geek out on real estate—with confidence.

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